First the Superntural fandom went collectively stupid over a "brutal honesty" meme (there is no such thing. Only nastiness cloaked as forthrightness) and now when the predictable has happened and many are left to lick their wounds and bathe them with tears, they have started up a love meme. Oh, SPN fandom, don't ever grow up. *g* *loves my silly fandom*
Not that I object to the love meme thing. Everybody needs a little lovin'. We are mostly women here, after all and they say women are like the police - they can have all the evidence in the world, but they still try to get the confession.
In fact, I was thinking of putting my name up there as well, when I realized I didn't need to. I know you love me. You make that clear to me with every comment you make, with your generosity, your constance and your empathy with me through my happiness as well as my sorrows. I'm not entirely sure I deserve it, because sometimes I am not as up to date with my own flist as I'd like to be and sometimes I feel like I may be ignoring you when I get caught up in my own life. But it's a wonderful gift to have and I'm not going to second-guess it.
FLIST, YOU ARE OFFICIALLY FANTABULICIOUS!
So here's the thing. I want anybody who's in the mood for a little lovin' to comment on my journal and I'll give you an Awesomecake, i.e tell you why exactly you are so fantastic and why I love having you on my flist. I have a lot of love to give these days, both IRL and on LJ, so get them Awesomecakes while they're hot!
*hugs you all*
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Date: 2008-03-07 03:30 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-03-07 03:35 am (UTC)*snerk* Kinda figured something like that would happen. Not that I joined in the "brutally honest" meme. What purpose would that serve, save to put a target on my chest and let people take pot shots at me? It's like watching elementary school kids! LOL!
*squishes you* Oh, you totally deserve it all and then some, my friend! I might not comment on every post, but I'm reading and watching out for ya! ♥♥♥
Oh, and... *raises hand*
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Date: 2008-03-07 04:37 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-03-07 04:58 am (UTC)You're so great. :)
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Date: 2008-03-07 05:16 am (UTC)And since am always in for loving, commenting and...cake (OMG, cake!! *drools + g* tadda! Awesomacake time! ;)
LOL+TC,
Carole
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Date: 2008-03-07 07:41 am (UTC)Every time I read your posts or comments, I'd swear up and down I'm talking to a young girl named Lara if I didn't know better. Half the time I'm convinced you're a college student who might be even younger than me. I think you are always going to be one of those people who will never age beyond 20. And infectiously so.
I'm only sorry that I waited so long to add you to my flist. Never change. *hugs*
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Date: 2008-03-07 07:47 am (UTC)And that's how brutally honest I am. *LOL* *hugs*
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Date: 2008-03-07 07:52 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-03-07 07:59 am (UTC)Well, we're really too new as friends to know that much about each other. But I'm so glad to have somebody I can squee with about Bollywood! And you seem to have excellent taste...not just a mindless fangirl like so many, you actually look for meanings and messages behind things. You rate lyrics more than the melody and you aren't the kind of person who'll rate a song by how catchy it is. I think that makes a great meta on your personality. Also, you have a keen sense of heritage. You don't condone mutilating your language just so they can pander to the masses. Now I'm a Sri Lankan and I don't know Hindi that well, but i completely understand being protective of your culture and I admire that.
Of course, these are all just first impressions. If you think I'm wrong about something, you're welcome to put me right. =)
Hope we get to know each other better soon! *hugs*
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Date: 2008-03-07 08:06 am (UTC)Apart from the random stuff I put under the love meme, you know what I like about you? You are completely unpretentious. You say it like it is, and aren't afraid to tell people who can't deal with it to fuck off. You and
Also, I love the way you explode on LJ. I may disagree with you when you do, but having an explosive temper myself, it's always nice to see people getting some therapeutic value out of LJ. *LOL* *hugs*
Love and brutal honesty both! How about that? =D
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Date: 2008-03-07 08:13 am (UTC)Since you are probably the person who comments most on my LJ, you get an extra large cake. Playing favourites, what?Oh, Carole, you are one of the most hyper, ADD, open minded, large-hearted, empathic, adorably crazy women on my flist. Although
I love how you always seem to comment on my posts, even when they're really mundane, and I love how you always bring the gift of music with you. You are open to so many things and seem so eager for new ideas and experiences that it's an adventure having you on my flist. And even though we've been friends only for a very short time and we live in such different worlds, we seem to get each other so well!
You carry right on, you craji chicken, you!*hugs*
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Date: 2008-03-07 08:23 am (UTC)haha actually yes I did think that we were too new as friends for you to be able to comment so I didn't raise my hand. But wow surprisingly you have been very perceptive! I love the fact that you are such a good judge of character. And as I was reading the entry I will be honest I was very pleasantly surprised. I really liked reading how self assured you were about your f-list's love. It is to your and your f-list's credit. A lot of people on LJ sometimes post just to get attention and I like the fact that you aren't so. Also you seem like a friend who will give 100% to a friendship and I respect you for it ♥
Indeed I hope this is a lasting friendship. It has to last because then we can say we met because of Jab We Met heh.
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Date: 2008-03-07 08:26 am (UTC)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9rcP_6TO2nQ
(Shahid when he was young in a music video)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wi-FO7Nmafw
(Shahid when he was young in a pepsi advert)
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Date: 2008-03-07 08:32 am (UTC)I feel like I'm taking a journey with you, an important one. This is a period of such change, upheaval and growth in my life, that you feel like the one constant. I haven't gone a day in the past five months without speaking to you.
As a person, I both love and fear the way you empathise with your friends and how vital they are to you. It fortify your resolve as much as it leaves you vulnerable. I fear for your sense of self-preservation sometimes. As a friend, I love what a bundle of contradictions you are, how hyper and temperamental you are and the way you bounce off the walls screaming for coffee at the end of the day. As a Livejournalist, I'm proud and admiring of how quickly you seem to have developed in your writing and abilities of expression. Sometimes I'm sorry you went into IT. You obviously have loads of potential in communication.
Not only do you harbour the fiercest brand of loyalty toward your friends, but you also evoke the strongest feelings of protectiveness in those around you. It's very easy for people to like and trust you, but it's also a little too easy for you to like other people and empathise with them a little too deeply. I love the way you soar above the clouds when you are happy about the littlest thing and I hate the way you fall into the deepest pits of despair when you become sad.
I could go on, of course, but this is sappy enough as it is. *g* Most of all, hon, I love that you turn to me to soothe your hurts and kiss away your bumps and scratches that life gives you almost daily. Always there for you and always will be. Like I know that you'll be there for me too. *hugs*
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Date: 2008-03-07 08:34 am (UTC)I THOUGHT YOUR COMMENT WAS RATHER AWESOME! XD
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Date: 2008-03-07 08:36 am (UTC)I really liked reading how self assured you were about your f-list's love. It is to your and your f-list's credit
I'm glad you think so. My flist deserves a lot of credit. =D
It has to last because then we can say we met because of Jab We Met heh
How appropriate! *LOL* *clinks glasses*
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Date: 2008-03-07 08:45 am (UTC)THAT WAS THE SWEETEST THING ANYONE HAS EVER SAID ABOUT ME
I'M AT A LOSS OF WORDS!!!
OH BABY I LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH!!!!
I DON'T DESERVE YOU
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Date: 2008-03-07 08:50 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-03-07 09:33 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-03-07 09:53 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-03-07 11:41 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-03-07 12:07 pm (UTC)cake!I have you pegged as the marginally less crazy one in my flist full of crazies. You're not very loud and flamboyant, like the others are, but you are always there, sweet and constant, with an encouraging voice and a hug at the end of a very long rambly emo post. That's not to say that you are a mouse, very far from it, in fact. It's just that your vivacity is of the quiet kind. You remind me of clover blossoms. There's something comforting and reassurring about your presence.
And I love that you let me know when I make you laugh. That's one thing that makes me feel very special. Whenever I make an entry, I always hope it will at least make you smile. *hugs*
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Date: 2008-03-07 12:22 pm (UTC)I don't think you are the kind of gal who is into an excess of mush. You are one hell of a brilliantly snarkastic woman who is a true spawn of Pratchett's literary genius. You have a delightfully sharp wit and a sense of being very much your own person. You bring a taste of the unpredictable to my flist, which is a trait I love.
*hugs*
P.S I also heart your default icon, although I have no idea who it is. I always pictured you as having vivid red hair and imagine my glee when it turned out I was right!
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Date: 2008-03-07 01:03 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-03-07 02:00 pm (UTC)(for the record, half the time I'm convinced I'm 18, too. lol!)